Marriages are truly made in heaven. But, in today’s world this statement is not true. When two people unite and decide to spend the rest of their lives together, only then they can be considered for marriage. Sadly in the current scenario, two people meet and get married without even knowing much about each other. They marry because of a few reasons. Some of them have issues with growing age, infatuation and various others. No matter what reason you have, the decision of marriage should not be taken in a few seconds.
An offline counselor can interrupt and interject. An online presentation gives a couple an opportunity to talk through what they’ve read or seen. This is invaluable, because after a counselor is gone, the two people in the marriage remain. It’s imperative that they do the work together, and family counselling makes that a little easier.
Respect Each Other -Respecting each other doesn’t mean that one partner is more important than the other! Both husband and wife are bound to love and honor each other, and one way to do it is to respect each other as individuals. You don’t have to agree on everything – instead, agree to allow your spouse to be the person God made him or her to be. Take challenges as opportunities to learn and grow stronger together.
Friends, may give marriage problem advice, particularly when they have gone through similar problems with their marriage. Nonetheless, considering that no marriages can be exactly like the other, then you have to alter the guidance given to fit with your own relationship.
Since her children had gone off to college their relationship had become strained. J. thought perhaps it might be empty-nest syndrome. I advised J. that it could indeed be empty-nest syndrome but that I needed a little more information before I could make any assumptions as a Psychologist or Life Coach. I asked J. more about her current situation.
Understand that he is an individual, and remember what it is that is special about him that made you fall in love with him in the first place. Begin rebuilding your friendship right now – it’s one of the most important friendships you’ll ever experience.
Take a long, hard look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? Is that person looking back at you interesting, sexy and full of intriguing promise? Or do you look the same you’ve looked for the last several months or years?
If you’re still doubting just try one session, and see what you think. You’ve got nothing to lose, and you’ll be glad you made an effort to repair your marriage.